Kshama Bindu Solo-Sologamy Marriage First Indian Case

Kshama Bindu of Gujrat is in the news recently because of something that had never happened in India. Her decision of sologamy has sparked a fire in the society and has started a new debate. Many marriage counselors are insisting that marriage is about two people joining hands and souls for the rest of their lives. Self love is fine but to show the self love, going to such an extreme is not correct.

Lets know about everything about Kshama Bindhu and why she is so famous and what she has to say about her decision.

Who is Kshama Bindu?

Kshama Bindhu is a girl hailing from Vadodara which is in Gujarat of India. Gujarat is located in the western part of India.

Why was Kshama Bindu in News?

Kshama Bindu was in the news when she declared that she would do sologamy marriage with herself which never had happened in India. This is when she came in the news.

Solo Marriage date of Kshama Bindu

Earlier Kshama Bindu declared that she would marriage with herself on 11th June, 2022 in a temple. But later she married few days before of that in her home as the local BJP worker had objected this decision as it was against Hinduism.

As a result of this protest the priest also left the temple on the day of marriage so Kshama had to marry in her home.

Honeymoon of Kshama Bindu

Kshama Bindu has planned to go on a two-week-long honeymoon to Goa after the wedding.

Bindu’s take on her solo marriage decision

Bindu’s parents are supporting her decision and saying they are happy as long as their daughter is happy. Bindu says its her decision and she is happy with this. She adds, “It’s my decision to marry who I want – whether it’s a man or a woman or myself. And by marrying myself, I want to normalise sologamy. I want to tell people that you come into the world alone and you leave it alone. So who can love you more than yourself? If you fall, it’s you who are going to have to pick yourself up.“

What was written on the hands of Kshama Bindhu with Mehndi?

Kshama performed all the rituals that happen in a wedding and also got herself mehndi too writing “Just a girl who care enough to try”.

FAQ

Q1. What is Sologamy Marriage?
Ans: When someone marriages to oneself and do not require another partner in a marriage, this is called solo marriage.

Q2: Is Solo Marriage happening in any part of World?
Ans: Yes, Italy and Japan have seen these cases earlier and infact there many companies have started offering packages also.

Q3: Who raised the Idea of ‘Solo Marriage’?
Ans: Perhaps it was in the series Sex and the City when the idea of solo marriage was raised by a character Carrie Bradshaw. In the show which was aired some 20 years age, this character raised this idea of self marriage.

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